Some
days ago I was surfing on the Internet and, I can't remember if it
was on Facebook or on Youtube, but I saw a comment that made me kind
of upset. Well, it wasn't just a comment, actually some people were
having an argument through the comments.
The
first intervention was from a girl, comenting something about the
video or the post. You could see that the girl was catalan because of
her name and surnames, but she commented in Spanish because it was
Spanish content. Then, there was a reply to that comment from a boy,
asking the girl if she was catalan. The girl replied and said yes,
and they started a conversation through the comments in Catalan.
Then,
another guy replied to those comments calling them rude for speaking
Catalan in a comment section in which everyone speaks Spanish. After
this, some people joined the “conversation”, some of them in
favour of that guy and some of them against him. The guy defended
himself saying that it was a lack of respect to start speaking
Catalan in the middle of a conversation in Spanish,- when actually a
conversation in Spanish hadn't even started, because the catalan boy
relplied to the first comment in Catalan, and the conversation
started in Catalan- but anyways, what upset me the most weren't those
things, it was a comment from a girl who joined the conversation
which said something like this: “They think they are cool by
speaking Catalan on the comments. But one thing is true: you are
never going to see any comment in Basque or Galician. I also think
this is a lack of respect, but hey, they are Catalan people. Don't
ask for more.”
That
comment made me angry because, firstly, I have sometimes seen
comments in Basque or Galician in Spanish-speaking sites, and it
doesn't bother me at all. But apart from that, the worst thing, is
the way the girl talked about us, the Catalan people, as people who
are rude or impolite by definition. And well, I don't think I need to
give reasons against that, because I think it is too obvious that it
isn't true. There is people impolite all around the world, even if
they speak Catalan, Spanish or Russian. And the same happens with
polite people.
All
this comments thing made me remember about one time that me and a
friend, were called impolite by a random guy, just because we talked
with each other in Catalan on a Facebook's comment section.
About
this, I think some people are just so grumpy about this kind of
things. I mean, you're on the Internet where people from all around
the world and who speak a ton of different languages is connected;
there something called freedom of expression, which we all have; and
the people who are talking in another language are not even talking
to you. So just let it go. Let them talk with who they want to talk
using the language they want to use.
I
could accept if that people felt upset if someone talked to them in a
language they don't understand, but if it doesn't concern you, why
should you be that grumpy and take some of your time writing a
comment to call them rude? As the saying says, “Some men just want
to see the world burn”. And actually, in my opinion, the roles are
backwards, the rude ones are them by insulting for no reason someone
who is just having a conversation using his or her language.